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Tips for Siblings: Getting the Future Planning Conversation Started (The Arc)


Your family needs to plan for how your sibling will live in the future, but starting the conversation can be very difficult. Here are some tips to prepare you to start talking with your family.

What do you want to say to your parents and sibling? Think about what you want to tell your family about the importance of planning for the future. What role do you foresee playing in your sibling’s life in the future? What other obligations do you have in your life that you need to balance? What information do you need to know to support your sibling? Who Should Be Part of the Conversation? When is A Good Time to Talk? Where Do I Feel Comfortable Bringing This Up?


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